The 13 Ms for Men that make the marriage

Maintain integrity and set an example for your family.
Make the right decision and learn to consult your wife.
Make your wife beautiful, let her look pretty and feel loved and respected.
Manage well your income, time and resources.
Marry the person you know and love.
Maximize your talents, gifts and work.
Meditate on what is pure and avoid evil thought.
Meet the need of your family and learn to be a mediator
Mention not the faults of your wife to other people or keep no record for her mistakes.
Minister to your wife and children, learn to appreciate and encourage them.
Mistreat not your wife and children but show them love and kindness.
Mobilize your family for hard work.
Motivate your wife and children by being positive toward them

The 13 Ls for Ladies to live a legacy

Lead your children in the way of God.
Learn be kind to people and give a big smile to your husband.
Leave your house in order and let it be clean.
Let your deed be appreciated by your husband and people around you.
Lie not to your husband and don't spread rumors.
Limit your boundaries, know who to talk to.
List all your activities and prioritize, plan and execute.
Listen and obey your husband.
Live a life of integrity and learn to say thank you, sorry and well done.
Live according to God's Word.
Look after your family life, the social, spiritual, academic and physical life.
Look nice; enhance your beauty and character.
Love your husband, family and relatives.

 Copyright Brother Syaviha Mulengya B.Ka-situluhe, Evangelist